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Topic: what to do?
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blindmelon420
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posted 11-30-104 12:38 PM
  
I'm good friends with this guy and I started having really strong feelings for him about 2 months ago and all I do is think about him, all I want is him. He is absolutly beautiful and he's so amazing to be with but I'm so scared that if I tell him he will reject me, and it seems cowardly but I don't think I could handle that. Do any of you have any advice on the matter? It would be great if someone could tell me what to do, or what to say to get him to notice my feelings.
Peace and Love
Julianne------------------
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CowboyHippy
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posted 11-30-104 04:58 PM
we'llBeing in that situation on more than one occasion I learned to play cards, (dont take that as playing.)
Gotta know when to hold them
know when to fold them
when to walk away
and when to run. disclaimer, there are a lot of exceptions.. you are at a disadvantage because your "manhunting"
woman are a lot more keen to the workings of a man, and men will never understand a woman It's hard to give advice without sounding like a man whore. If you can present yourself with a "golden opportunity" and he doesnt ante up he will always be just a friend. stacking the deck is legal though... |
longhairedhippiechic
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posted 12-01-104 09:25 AM
Okay, I used to be scared of rejection, until one day I just went for it. I asked the guy out on a couple of dates, then it turned out, I could never be his girlfriend, he's not my type. But anyway, once you just bite the bullet and get it over with, you most likely wont be scared anymore. Plus if you guys hang out all the time, he probably already like you back. Heres some clues, if he looks at you when he thinks your not looking, offeres to go places with you, really touchy feely, or never touches you at all, depending on his personality. I say just do it, if he doesnt like you back then, thats it, I promise you will get over it.He probably likes you though.good luck
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