posted 09-20-104 07:17 PM
I am very sad for you and your situation.I have been a strict vegetarian for 5 ½ years now and I raise my children the same. My husband eats meat. He has always respected me in my choice and agrees on raising our children vegetarian. (He does not cook or eat meat in our home out of respect.)
I do think you have the right to be angry, however you choice to marry your wife so I think you need to have a talk with her and explain to her who deeply this hurt you.
Good luck, my thoughts and energy will be with you.