love and lack there of

[LIBRA]

me, you
you, me
why do I bother
why do I need it
Love
empty
full
gone
and
back again
so many emotions
too little notions
try to hard, seems to little
there is no balance
striving for, thriving for
balance
love.....

these things, words run through my head everyday, I feel such a need to be to be in love, I dont really know why, I just love the thought of being in love but then when I am I feel all those things and its not all what it is in my head!
hard to explain.

[BandAide]

I've been wondering how things have been going in this respect for you.

I always believed, or at least tried to believe that when love really happened that it would be absolutely everything I imagined. And when it wasn't, and I felt certain that I was loving with all of myself, than I resolved that the other person was not or it would feel right.


And finally, when I found what it was that was completely fullfilling, I knew that I'd been on the right track.

I don't know if that helps you or if you even need help. You're an amazing, strong lady Libra, I hope you find something that suits your every whim.

[Pedata]

I've been with the same man for twenty two years and have realized, over the years, that love is not like in books or movies. Not even close. It's not a constant state of passion.


Mostly it's two people sharing a place and playing cards now and then, or watching a movie.

I've seen a lot of my friends split up when the passion dies. They think something is wrong, but it's not. It's normal.

Don't know if that's what you meant, but that's all I know.

There's a saying..."women marry for a beginning. Men marry for an end".

The best thing you can end up with is companionship.

Peace,
Cass

[LIBRA]

I know its not always like that but I am so romantic If I found the right person Id love them like they've never known, I long for it cant get it out of my head and I need to. I dont feel complete unless I have that companionship.
I feel so much love from my son but thats not the love I am talking about.
I will find it I just have to stop looking and relax!!

as far as kris's dad, no, no, no I dont know what I was thinking other then I wouldnt have to be alone, but Id rather be alone, nothing is worth that!!
and the other guy I still see him, but its mostly just once in awhile Id like more but he's not ready and I dont say that I just know it and let it go on the way it is for now.

I am just not the type of person who can handle being alone, I sleep alone, wake up alone I do everything and its wearing me down! but is ok and I am ok, just whining a bit!!

[PEACE FROG]

I loved your poem. We (my wife and I) just had our eighth anniversary yesterday. Before that I was....... well I dated ALOT. However no matter whom I was sleeping with I always woke up with myself. So when I was exhausted and ready to settle down, I found a companion who brought out the best in me. And I in her. We enjoy ourselves and each other ;)

[LIBRA]

Thats all I am asking for, not perfection just exactly what you said, pretty much a friend, that you can sleep with ;) and not get in trouble!! just kidding but I really dislike being alone, its just not me and I dont want to be with just anybody either, been there done that, I want the one!!!

lonelyness
selfishness
soul
deep
gotta keep
that little creep!!!

heehee!! :p

gotta find him first!!

[kermit]

me, you
you, me
why do I bother
why do I need it
Love
empty
full
gone
and
back again
so many emotions
too little notions
try to hard, seems to little
there is no balance
striving for, thriving for
balance
love.....

these things, words run through my head everyday, I feel such a need to be to be in love, I dont really know why, I just love the thought of being in love but then when I am I feel all those things and its not all what it is in my head!
hard to explain.


THank you!

:)
das good shiz