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jessibear
01-16-2005, 11:33 AM
I dreampt last night that I kissed an aquaintance of mine (who happens to be a client at the company I work for). Since I am happily married and have no feelings for this client I am perplexed by this dream. Also, I keep a dream journal and my husband read it and is upset with me. GRRRRRR! :mad:

Pedata
01-16-2005, 08:36 PM
That's a drag about your husband being mad. Hide your journal.
Everyone has wierd dreams that make no sense. Sometimes they don't mean a thing.

Peace,
Pedata

moonjava
01-16-2005, 08:41 PM
if you want to go freud-repressed desires
if you don't...well it may not be the acquaintence that you were kissing-the acquantance can stand for something else and your brain connected that something else-with his/her physical appearance.
the meaning of kissing can also studied in more detail.
depends on how much energy you feel like dishing out for this dream. your husband should understand enough about dreams, i mean-if you even keep a regular dream journal, i'm sure you're pretty well informed about dreams in general. Try explaining stuff to him..i dunno
so anyway, think about what the acquaintence represents to you (feelings, things you need to do, things you hate ETC)
yeah..
peace!

jessibear
01-17-2005, 09:17 AM
Yeah, I've been keeping a dream journal for a while... I really didn't care if he read it b/c I know that dreams aren't always literal and that kiss was probably symbolic of something. I tried explaining that to him, but he doesn't take me seriously. It sucks, but he'll get over it.

toman
01-17-2005, 03:07 PM
Maybe these two seemingly separate issues are in fact one. The way your husband is acting is unfair; does he do other, similar things? Maybe your dream was simply a glimpse of a subconsious world where you get all the aspects you enjoy about your husband, but with a person you imagine you would be more comfortable with, or possibly just less attatched too. or, I could be talking out of my ass because I'm definately no psycologist. G'day! ;-)

ladywithafan
01-17-2005, 04:43 PM
I always have dreams that I am kissing some random person that I am not attracted to at all. And then the next day I see them, I get all embarassed thinking about it :o