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hedgewitch
06-10-2008, 02:03 AM
Mindfulness is the practice whereby a person is intentionally aware of his or her thoughts and actions in the present moment, non-judgmentally. Mindfulness is applied to both bodily actions and the mind's own thoughts and feelings. In Buddhism, the second kind of mindfulness is considered a prerequisite for developing insight and wisdom.

Right mindfulness is also known as Right Meditation. There are many, many forms of mindfulness and meditation. One example of mindfulness is to mentally give a verbal label to each inbreath and outbreath during sitting meditation. So, each time one breathes in, one thinks (e.g.) "rising", and each time one breathes out, one thinks "falling".

In this type of meditation, the breath serves as a tether that the practitioner uses to bring his or her awareness back to the present moment. By residing more frequently in the present moment, practitioners begin to see both the inner and outer aspects of reality. As one more closely observes inner reality, one finds that happiness is not a quality brought about by a change in outer circumstances, but rather by realizing unhappiness starts with one's own "mindless", and therefore automatic, reactions toward pleasant and unpleasant situations or feelings.

Fundamentally mindfulness is a simple concept. Its power lies in its practice and its applications. Mindfulness means paying attention in a particular way: on purpose, in the present moment, and nonjudgmentally. This kind of attention nurtures greater awareness, clarity, and acceptance of present-moment reality. It wakes us up to the fact that our lives unfold only in moments. If we are not fully present for many of those moments, we may not only miss what is most valuable in our lives but also fail to realize the richness and the depth of our possibilities for growth, and transformation.

Mindfulness is an activity that can be done at any time. It does not require sitting, or even focusing on the breath, but rather is done by bringing the mind to focus on what is happening in the present moment, while simply noticing the mind's usual "commentary". One can be mindful of the sensations in one's feet while walking, of the sound of the wind in the trees, or the feeling of soapy water while doing dishes. One can also be mindful of the mind's commentary: "I wish I didn't have to walk any further, I like the sound of the leaves rustling, I wish washing dishes wasn't so boring and the soap wasn't drying out my skin", etc. Any activity done mindfully is a form of meditation.

Whenever a wholesome thought arises, acknowledge it: “A wholesome thought has just arisen.” If an unwholesome thought arises, acknowledge it as well: “An unwholesome thought has just arisen.” Don’t dwell on it or try to get rid of it. To acknowledge it is enough. If they are still there, acknowledge they are still there. If they have gone, acknowledge they have gone. That way the practitioner is able to hold of his mind and to obtain the mindfulness of the mind.

Don’t ponder: You don’t need to figure everything out. Discursive thinking won’t free you from the trap. In meditation, the mind is purified naturally by mindfulness, by wordless bare attention. Habitual deliberation is not necessary to eliminate those things that are keeping you in bondage. All that is necessary is a clear, non-conceptual perception of what they are and how they work. That alone is sufficient to dissolve them. Concepts and reasoning just get in the way. Don’t think. See.

Until we deliberately listen for it, we usually pay little attention to the fact that there’s the constant chatter of a monologue — often idiotic — running in our minds. When we really lose ourselves, we can even work it up to a dialogue.

Our minds jabber to themselves much of the time…

If my happiness at this moment consists largely in reviewing happy memories and expectations, I am but dimly aware of this present. I shall still be dimly aware of the present when the good things that I have been expecting come to pass. For I shall have formed a habit of looking behind and ahead, making it difficult for me to attend to the here and now. If, then, my awareness of the past and future makes me less aware of the present, I must begin to wonder whether I am actually living in the real world.

What is the use of planning to be able to eat next week unless I can really enjoy the meals when they come ? If I am so busy planning how to eat next week that I cannot fully enjoy what I am eating now, I will be in the same predicament when next week’s meals become “now.”

The millions are awake enough for physical labor; but only one in a million is awake enough for effective intellectual exertion, only one in a hundred millions to a poetic or divine life. To be awake is to be alive. I have never yet met a man who was quite awake. How could I have looked him in the face? We must learn to reawaken and keep ourselves awake, not by mechanical aids, but by an infinite expectation of the dawn, which does not forsake us in our soundest sleep.

From the Buddhist perspective, our ordinary waking state of consciousness is seen as being severely limited and limiting, resembling in many respects an extended dream rather than wakefulness. Meditation helps us wake up from this sleep of automaticity and unconsciousness, thereby making it possible for us to live our lives with access to the full spectrum of our conscious and unconscious possibilities.

link (http://www.43folders.com/2006/04/07/mindfulness/)

kalohabreeze
06-10-2008, 10:49 AM
This is exactly what I needed right now. I've been wanting to get back into meditating but with a toddler running around things just get hectic and fast. Living with everything you have in just that very moment.. all your thoughts and feelings.. it's all very overwhelming and I think our culture just enhances that feeling of being completely rushed and overwhelmed..

Thank you so much for posting this!

hedgewitch
06-10-2008, 11:45 AM
You're welcome kaloha - I think we all need a gentle reminder from time to me - me just as much as anyone.

PEACE FROG
06-10-2008, 03:38 PM
Excellent post!!! Thank You!!!! :hb:

Gaston
06-10-2008, 04:06 PM
Mindfulness is the practice whereby a person is intentionally aware of his or her thoughts and actions in the present moment, non-judgmentally.


Non-judgmentally. There's the rub.

I am by nature mindful. Part of it is the "Southern culture" I was raised in, part of it is my nature, and part is cultivation. Unfortunately, far too much of my realization of it is judgmental.

When I'm in the grocery, I think "I should be considerate of other people, that I don't block the other shoppers, and that I'm aware of them at all times". Unfortunately, too often I think "look at that clueless slob blocking the whole goddamned pickle aisle". That attitude is not ... helpful, and ... it does not clear the pickle aisle. Other solutions cross my mind. As Richard Nixon once famously said "It would be wrong. It would be wrong ... but we could do it."

Life's a work in progress. :D

LIBRA
06-11-2008, 04:37 AM
ha ha Gaston, too funny!!!!! But at least you aware of it, some people think those things and arent even aware of how rude it is, some even say it aloud.


I try and always be mindfully aware, I drive by a dead animal in the road and I talk to it, send it on its way. Aware of its pain, how scared it must have been and how gentle a life it once had.

Great post :)

Meditating makes me dizzy :p

PEACE FROG
06-11-2008, 06:59 AM
I try and always be mindfully aware, I drive by a dead animal in the road and I talk to it, send it on its way. Aware of its pain, how scared it must have been and how gentle a life it once had.

Do you do the same for fur coats?

LIBRA
06-11-2008, 08:58 AM
Always. Sometimes I even wear them around and pretend im that animal, grazing away. Its kinda fun ;)