Its gonna be a really crappy Valentines day

[granolamomma]

Sorry to be just a downer, but I think my other boards are tired of hearing me whine. My husband and I have officially separated. :( He says that he is unhappy, there is something missing that I can't provide, that he is too stressed out and I'm making it worse, I could go on but I won't. He doesn't want to live with me anymore, so he left. He is staying at a friend's from now on. I feel like my world is falling apart. I don't know anyone here besides him and he and the kids have been my entire life for the past 3 yrs. He is the reason I quit doing coke, he is the father of my girls, he was with me when we found out about Gwens problems, he has been my rock for so long I don't know what I am going to do w/o him. I love him w/ all my heart. I feel like my whole world is shattering. I am incredibly depressed, and I've been crying constantly. My poor kids probably think I'm crazy. I guess we need to sit them down and tell them what is going on. This really sucks. :(

[BandAide]

Oh sweet Granolamama!

This is so devastating...

I wish I were there to give you a huge hug and eat a box of chocolates with you.

Is there anyone who can come and keep you company for a few days? A mom or an aunt or a really close friend?

Right now, you've gotta let yourself be sad... but you've gotta take care of those babies too. You've got two right? An 18 month old and a two month old, right? You need some help right now.

Don't try to do everything. Let someone help you.

Please let me know that you have someone! Where are you? If you are close enough... I'll come and be your someone.

If you want my phone number or you want to give me yours, I will call you can listen and try to be helpful.

I am so sorry.

[delta9]

Alright I didn't want to have to do this...

* opens up the freezer *

Ben and Jerry's for you, all flavors, gallon buckets :D

[RockyJay]

I had to get in touch with my inner female for this.

First I shall offer
[CLICK] (http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v606/___/kleenex.jpg)

and then maybe these?
[THESE?] (http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v606/___/548d9476.jpg)
I have loads of that kind now.

[AND] (http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v606/___/chocolate.bmp)
I had all the calories removed for you. :)

If that doesn't work, I will show you a very dashing picture of me.[click] (http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v606/___/me/0884b480.gif)

And if you don't fancy me, maybe this other guy would delight you in some way. [CLICK] (http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v606/___/2aa11983.jpg)

And if nothing works still, I volunteer to be punching bag for you provided you don't hit me with anything hard and in the place where it hurts the most.

Or could I just offer you a hug? :)

[treehugger]

RockyJay,

You rock! Even though it wasn't intended for me I got a chuckle out of your links.

Granolamomma, my thoughts are with you. Valentines day is really tough when you're going through something like this.

Kath

[mountain_mama]

Oh granolamomma! Trust me, I know how hard it is to go through something like this :( Please belive me when I say my heart feels for you. Hang in there. Your kids need you so much right now. I hope there is somebody who can come out to help you with them for a few days so you can maintain a bit of sanity while you work this out.

[granolamomma]

thanks everyone it makes me feel better to know that people care. (even people I've never met :D) RockyJay, your post made me smile..thanks for that. I really need to go to bed, but I can't sleep. I cleaned my living room, kitchen, and part of the bathroom instead. I even mopped. :eek: I hate to clean, but it has helped keep my mind clear. Ah Gwen just woke up, gotta put her back to bed now..good night.

[theREALsun]

((((((((((((((((((((((((( hugs )))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
(((((((((((((((((squeezes))))))))))))))))))))))))) ))

bandaide is right, you need to let someone care for you for a minute
even if its just to sit with you

my heart goes out to you......
there are better days to come ;)

[BandAide]

Rocky Jay,

Clever, clever, clever...

I used one of those tissues. Lotion, huh?

[RockyJay]

thanks everyone it makes me feel better to know that people care. (even people I've never met :D) RockyJay, your post made me smile..thanks for that. I really need to go to bed, but I can't sleep. I cleaned my living room, kitchen, and part of the bathroom instead. I even mopped. :eek: I hate to clean, but it has helped keep my mind clear. Ah Gwen just woke up, gotta put her back to bed now..good night.

You're welcome granolamomma. You remind me of a girl I once knew who cleaned up a lot when she was sad. She used to alphabetize her books by author or by title on a whim and things like that. You made me smile too. :) Thank you.

I hope you feel better.

BandAide, you got just one? Get a whole box on me. :D

[ShaDoW]

I'm sorry your having a sorrowful day
here is a great big hug and some virtual chocolates
just for you... :p
Have a better valentines, fom my heart to yours. :)
ShaDoW

[tooter_mcgee]

im so so sorry for whats happening with you this valentines day. i know there's not much i can say that will make things any better really, but heres a thought:
make the day special for you and your kids. after all, you love them, and they love you...thats always something to celebrate. especially for someone who sounds like such a great mom, all of you moms here do; you, bandaide, mountain_mama, and anyone else i may have forgotten :)

[Pedata]

I don't know what to say except I'm so sorry this happened to you. I don't want to ask nosy questions but I hope you're doing ok financially, especially since you have two little ones to take care of.


Great big Hugs to you :)

Peace,
Cassandra

[peach_blossom]

I've been taught that when I don't know what to say all I need to do is be there for a person and hug someone as much as needed.

The people in happyhippie are here for you granolamomma.

*HUGG*

:)